婉言说“不”之15妙语
爱思英语编者按:很多时候我们会陷入这样的窘境,想拒绝,但No字在心口难开。那不妨试试这下面教你的15种婉拒的妙语吧。
The problem comes when saying no will put you in an awkward situation. Maybe you feel bad turning down the invitation to a coworker’s bridal shower or you’re worried that saying no to your cubicle buddy will cost you opportunities down the line. What you need in your back pocket is a way to say no gracefully—and that’s just what I’ve got for you today. Consider them “Get out of Jail Free” cards for grown-ups. For requests in the workplace: 更多信息请访问:http://www.engbus.cn/ “I’m sorry, but I just have a lot of other responsibilities on my plate. I really can’t give that project the attention it deserves.” “I love your ideas, and I know a few people who might be great matches for your project.” “You know, this isn’t really my area of expertise, but I know a few great resources. Let me write them down for you.” “I’d love to help, but I’m on a strict deadline for the next few days. Let me know if there’s any way I can help another time.” “I’d love to come to your [creepy after-hours direct marketing] party, but I’m babysitting for a friend that evening.” (I highly recommend brainstorming a few truthful excuses as to why you wouldn’t be able to go: make plans to call your mom, to catch up with an old friend, or to finally do whatever task it is that you’ve been putting off.) “I’m sorry, but as a general rule I don’t participate in [insert activity or favor here]. If there’s another way I can help, let me know.” For a friend’s event you can’t attend: “I wish I could come, but I’ve got a family thing I can’t back out of. I hope everyone has a great time.” “Thanks for thinking of me! That evening isn’t good for me, but I’d love to come another time.” (Remember, only say “another time” if you really mean it–otherwise, you’re wasting the other person’s time.) “No, I won’t be able to make it, but please let me know how it goes.” “I really need some downtime, so I’ll have to pass. Email me a picture if you can and tell everyone ‘hi’ for me.” When you’d rather have a root canal: “I have to apologize. I think I’ve got the beginnings of a migraine, so I’d better lay low tonight. I hope you have a great time!” Or, try the Scarlett O’Hara option: “Why that sounds lovely! You will tell me how it went, won’t you? You’re such a doll!” Then book it out of there—fast! And here’s the nuclear option. If someone really won’t take no for an answer for a non-work hours event, this should get them to let it go: “I’m sorry but I’ll be all tied up then. That’s bondage night at my house. “
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