美文赏析:学会拒绝,你才能走得更远
If you don't want to do something for somebody, you should manage to say "No." in the first place. The moment you give in, you've given them the impression that they can use your time as long as they try hard enough. No "Let me see." No "Maybe." Just "No." and a "Sorry." if you want to be polite. Or you can ask "How much?" if it suits you. Time is the most precious thing that we have. Once you lose a piece of it, you can never get it back. And you have the freedom to decide how to use each piece of it. So if someone want a piece of your time, they have to be worth it, either by being someone you truly care or by providing enough payment. Let me say it once again. Time is the most precious thing that we have. Learn to refuse when people ask for your time. |