有这10个“坏习惯”,那可能是因为你聪明!
一身恶习肯定不利于身心健康和个人发展,但有点小毛病也未必是坏事儿。比如,研究证明,爱迟到的人往往比较乐观,习惯做最好的打算;桌面凌乱的人可能更有目标;偶尔走神可以提高工作效率等等。 拥有下面这些小毛病不仅无伤大雅,而且可能还对你有好处。 1. Procrastinating There's a growing body of literature dedicated to why people procrastinate - and how to stop it. But Wharton professor Adam Grant argues that we should expand our conception of procrastination to include not just laziness, but also waiting for the right time. In other words, procrastination can help boost creativity because you give yourself a chance to develop your big idea. 2. Biting your nails
When the kids were 13 and then 32 years old, the researchers performed allergy tests. Sure enough, the group that had habitually bit their nails and/or sucked their thumb as kids were less likely to have developed allergies. At the same time, one of the study authors advised parents not to encourage nail-biting or thumb-sucking in their kids. While nail-biting doesn't typically cause long-term damage, it can damage the skin around the nail, making you more susceptible to infections. Meanwhile, if thumb-sucking continues past when a kid's permanent teeth come in, it can change how the teeth line up. 3. Running late
不过迟到也许并不是你的本意,而是因为你对自己太过自信。据《纽约时报》援引心理学作家戴安娜•狄隆佐的话称: "Many late people tend to be both optimistic and unrealistic and this affects their perception of time. They really believe they can go for a run, pick up their clothes at the dry cleaners, buy groceries and drop off the kids at school in an hour." In other words, late people hope for and expect the best - which can be a double-edged sword in daily life. 4. Complaining
Meanwhile, recent research cited in The Atlantic found that those who complain more mindfully - meaning they have a specific end result in mind - are happier than those who simply vent. If you need to complain, there's a way to express some negativity without turning off everyone around you or exacerbating the situation. According to psychologist Guy Winch, there's a "right" way to gripe. "An effective complaint is about an issue that can be remedied, and is addressed to someone who has the power to fix it." 5. Chewing gum
Multiple studies suggest that chewing gum helps you feel more alert - one study even found that people who chewed gum performed better on an intelligence test than people who didn't. Other research suggests that chewing gum boosts mood and reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol. 6. Keeping a messy desk
But assuming you can keep your mess to yourself, there could be benefits to the disorganization. Recent research suggests that messiness prompts people to be more goal-oriented because we're motivated to seek order somewhere. In other words, simply the sight of a sloppy workspace could make you more productive. 7. Fidgeting
But tapping your leg or wiggling your fingers while you're seated at your desk could help you stay healthy. One study found that women who reported fidgeting more while at work had a lower mortality risk than women who said they fidgeted less. In fact, fidgeting seemed to make the association between long sitting times and mortality disappear. 8. Gossiping
Research suggests that gossiping in order to help someone else can make you feel better. 9. Daydreaming
But spending a few minutes deliberately letting yourself zone out can also make you more productive and creative. For example, one study cited in The Harvard Business Review found that allowing your mind to wander for about 12 minutes while you're working on a difficult task can help you find a solution when you return to it. 10. Using filler words
But a recent Quartz article highlights research that suggests words such as "um" and "uh" help listeners understand and remember what you're saying. |