美文赏析:美丽与否,永远都是主观的
Every now and then, someone tries to make a case for objective beauty – the notion that there is a quasi-scientific way to judge whether something is beautiful or not. They poorly analyze survey data. In the end, all this so-called objectivity simply serves what they themselves want to express. Beauty is subjective. Period. We each dictate what it is, how it is, and why it is. We assign degrees of beauty to those around us according to preconceived parameters. They coincide with what we value in life. They bounce off of our belief systems, our concepts of good and bad, right and wrong, and some, of righteous or sinful. A guy's heart is broken by a beautiful woman with light brown hair and hazel eyes. It forever alters his experience of those properties on a woman. A man's life is saved in the jungle by a woman with corncobs on her head and a plate in her lip. She is kind, caring, nurturing, and loving. He will forever see such women through new eyes. His inner eyes have opened to reveal beauty where once he was blind to it. I'm really tired of seeing all those dispute about beauty online. I hope my words can bring you all some inner peace if you need it. |