这些善意的谎言是可以告诉另一半的
1. The Outfit Compliment Really, if your spouse looks like an utter fool, it's probably best you say something to save this person from embarrassment. However, there are many occasions someone might not really "rock" that new shirt, dress, or pair of pants but . . . your spouse loves it! It's best you let your spouse feel good in that fashion choice. Don't say a word, because if you do, most likely, it's going to be the wrong thing! 2. When You Hate the BFF If your spouse's BFF is a big fat pain in the butt to you, most likely your spouse will see that the two of you don't "jive" well. But if you really can't stand this person, it's advisable that you keep some of your critique to yourself. You don't have to state that you love your spouse's bestie, and, if directly asked, soften the blow with a white lie like, "Well, we're just different people." Trust me, don't mess with a spouse's best friend . . . unless the person is toxic for your spouse. 3. A Facebook Request From an Ex OK, this is tricky problem here. Number one, don't accept this request. Number two, don't engage in an emotional affair. Now that you heeded my solid advice, here's another thing: don't tell your spouse about this friend request - just delete it! This is information that won't make your partner happy and, also, it is not essential. Just delete the request and go on with your day. 4. A Hot Co-Worker We all have our bucket list crushes of celebrities, but if someone in our real-life world is sexy as hell, let's NOT announce it to our spouse! If your spouse asks you outright if you find your co-worker sexy, just say he or she is attractive but not your type. If he or she can see through it, just say seriously, this person doesn't really do it for you. You don't need your spouse envisioning you having an affair with your co-worker. |