离婚后如何享受自由?
Getting divorced can be a challenging process, but once it's complete, you may feel a sense of relief and even lightness. You're free from the constraints and difficulties of your marriage and it's time to put yourself first. Here are great ways to enjoy your newfound freedom. Eat whatever you want, whenever you want If you and your former spouse had a lot of disagreements about what to eat, now's your time to enjoy the foods you love that he or she preferred to avoid or judged you for eating. So if you're up late watching movies and want to order pizza or bake cookies at 2 a.m., you totally can. Take a solo vacation It might sound daunting to travel alone, but it can also be totally liberating to choose your destination, tailor the trip to your wants and needs, and experience new things on your own. Try one of these amazing places that are particularly fun for single people, or go somewhere you always wanted to see but your former spouse vetoed. Buy new clothes-especially ones your ex wouldn't have liked Any major life change can trigger a closet revamp, and a divorce is a great chance to reinvent your style, with no one to please but yourself. So go ahead and buy clothes that make you feel amazing, confident, and happy, whether it's those knee-high boots you've always wanted or a custom leather jacket. Go to the movies alone Yes, the movies. Yes, by yourself. Not only can solo movie outings be good for your mental and physical health, but you get to choose the movie, the theatre, what time you're going, and where you sit. Even better, you don't have to share your popcorn or candy with anyone else or listen to their annoying play-by-play. Sleep in the middle of the bed Or diagonally across it. Whatever you like: there's no one else there to take up space, and studies show that it might be better for our overall health to sleep alone, and women in particular benefit from sleeping without another person in bed with them. Bonus: no one stealing the covers in the middle of the night. |