这些迹象或表明你们已争吵过头
1.) Social invites are an invitation for a fight When you and your boyfriend get invited to your BFF's Christmas party or a mutual friend's Halloween bash, you're excited, right? You're looking forward to seeing your friends and having fun and you know that it's going to be a great night. Except… if you and your boyfriend are fighting too much, then social invites are basically invitations for arguments. Your boyfriend might say that he doesn't like the people that you hang out with so he doesn't want to go. He might claim that he's tired from the work week when he's actually upset about something that has to do with your relationship (but he's not talking to you about it). On the other hand, you might not want to go to something that he's invited to, either, because you might know that you're having some problems but you're afraid to bring those issues up. If you want to know how much is too much when it comes to fighting in a relationship, the fact that you two are fighting about party or event invitations is a huge sign. This is absolutely too much arguing and shouldn't be happening. 2.) You're scared to talk to each other about anything and everything Couples need to be able to communicate with each other about the things that they like about each other and their relationship… and they also need to be able to come clean about the things that are becoming bigger problems. It's not sustainable to continue seeing each other when you're scared to talk to each other about anything and everything. Unfortunately, if you have a problem with your boyfriend (maybe you don't think that he's committing to you enough or you want him to get his dream job instead of complaining all the time), you need to be able to talk to him about it. When you're afraid to bring things up because you don't think that he's going to respond well, that's a sign that you're fighting with each other too much. You really have to be honest with each other about the good and bad things that are going on. |