研究表明女性更容易泄漏婚外情

爱思英语编者按：据英国每日邮报报道，一项最新的研究表明，女性把婚外情说出去的可能性比男性大得多，而男性只会将这种事告诉陌生人。女性非但不想保守这个秘密，而且那些曾对伴侣不忠的女性中，超过四分之十的人承认她们跟至少一个朋友聊过此事。与此形成鲜明对比的是，那些曾对伴侣不忠的男性中有四分之三的人由于太害怕被发现而不把此事告诉任何人。
 

Women are far more likely to gossip about having an affair than men - who only tell strangers, a study reveals today.

Far from wanting to keep it secret, more than four in ten women who have cheated on their partner admitted they chatted about it with at least one friend.

In stark contrast, three quarters of men who cheat on their partner are far too scared of being found out to tell anyone at all.

But despite playing their cards so close to their chests when it comes to infidelity, it seems men are twice as likely to tell a stranger as confide in their best friend.

Just six per cent tell a friend of their affair, while 12 per cent admitted they would tell someone they had just met that they were playing around.

In contrast, the research found that 43 per cent of women who stray gossip about it to their closest friend and 15 per cent tell more than one.

A relationship expert said this is because men are far less trusting of their friends than women and are programmed not to reveal anything which could make them vulnerable.

Phillip Hodson, from the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy, said: 'In short, men don't tend to reveal things about themselves while women like storytelling and tend to have more confidence and trust in their friends.更多信息请访问：http://www.engbus.cn/

'Men don't tend to bond in the same way and are loathe to share stuff which could make them vulnerable.

'They bond in terms of common experiences on stag weekends or in the pub but it's not the same as saying 'I'm sleeping with my wife's sister'.

'They fear that sort of information could be used against them. Men are used to being competitive and so they fear someone could blackmail them or betray them.

'Male relationships all contain a certain amount of banter and they may also fear that after a few beers it will all come out.

'In comparison women like to tell and share. They love the drama of soap operas and the like and they also trust their best friends not to tell.