习惯与改变 Habits and Changes
Some people love to change, and they look forward to new experiences. For them, following routines is tedious, they always want to do something new to have fun; while some others like to stay the same and make no change. According to them, try something new is risky, and sometimes they cannot even take the consequence of it. In my humble opinion, I think both have its own advantages and disadvantages. For one thing, the people who don’t like to change usually have the personality of steady and calm. If you ever try to make friends with this kind of people, you will find that they will provide you with a sense of security and dependency. However, these kinds of people usually follow a fixed schedule; they don’t like to try new things. They may be quite upset if things don’t go according to plan, in this case, they will lose the opportunities to experience new stuff. For another thing, the people who love to change also have advantages and disadvantages. They are willing to try new things, such as traveling to different countries, try a new recipe, or try to learn yoga. So they can broaden their horizon to some extent. They do not afraid of taking the risks and try to enjoy the most of life. But they usually lack of determination and perseverance, it seems that they can do everything; actually, they don’t know anything. As far as I concern, both of these lifestyles are impractical, because nobody will stay the same forever, while nobody will always willing to try something new. For me, the ideal lifestyle is somewhere between these two lifestyles. I can live in the way I want to, and try the new ways too. |