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What is off limits to criticize women about?
2023-12-05男人不能对女人的哪些方面评头论足?如果你要说一个女生变胖了,那一定会得罪她。这还不算最糟糕的。有一次,我在称赞一个女孩衣服漂亮之后,接着说了句看起来没花太多钱”,本来想夸她,结果把她弄哭了。看来想讨好女人,这学问可大着呢。Some work friends and I were rece...
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Just Listen
2023-12-05I suspect that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give e...
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The Great Wall Grey
2023-12-05The grey Great Wall winds in(缠绕) mountains and grey Siheyuan courtyards lie in hutongs. The grey is the tone of traditional architectures(建筑学,建筑物) in ...
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Modern manners: paying the bill
2024-10-12你和朋友们一起聚餐的时候,会怎样处理买单的问题呢?你会在用餐快结束时,悄悄地离席,装作去卫生间,然后毫无张扬地把账结了?还是大家AA制?抑或是别人还没来得及提出分摊时,你就先拿出你应付的钱?你是怎么想的呢?聚餐时大家如何付账才合理而且礼貌呢?Just how do you behave in tha...
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10 First-date mistakes
2023-12-05The best thing about bad dates is that we walk away with a great story, and little doubt that the perpetrator(作恶之人) is not the person for us.I was thi...
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From my perspective, once you enter into the realm of marriage, building and maintaining a successful marriage is actually a big part of personal and ...
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10 habits of highly successful women
2023-12-05首先,让我们看看来自作家Anais Nin的一段话:梦想转化为现实,现实又催生梦想,这种互生关系成就了生存的最高境界。”放弃完美主义,给自己留些时间要想成为一位成功的女性,需要养成哪些好习惯呢?These 10 habits of highly successful women rang...
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10 Annoying Text Habits to Avoid
2024-08-16Terrible texting etiquette -- and ways to combat themBy Victoria Lowe for CosmopolitanUnless you're living a seriously alternative lifestyle, you&...
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Renew your life!Change Up the Routine
2024-08-15美国一位社会活动家曾说:生活就是习以为常;而习以为常,就是拒绝求知。”当我们处理一系列有关心理健康的问题时,我们常常陷入惯常的反应中,不可自拔。当我们遇上挑战,也常常不由自主地告诉自己,管他呢,反正我不可能成功。”我们对自己的反应习以为常。然而,一旦我们意识到这个问题,我们便...
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接受这世界 你会快乐
2024-08-17我们能让这世界变得更美好么?这句话本身就是一个错误的假设,认为这世界不好。反过来,我们应该说世界就是这样的,没有什么绝对的好与不好。这是我们选择的生活方式,也是我们喜欢的生活方式。换个角度看待事物:接受并试着理解。接受这世界,你会快乐。There is nothing either good or ...