为什么聪明人总能保持冷静?
Why do intelligent people seem calm all the time? If you can solve your problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you cannot solve it, then what is the use of worrying? And if you look at this logically not being calm will only work to your disadvantage in many situations: There is an important exam coming up and you are freaking out. Panicking might confuse you, inhibit your learning and as a result you might perform worse on the exam. Someone is robbing you and you start to panic. You might get the robber nervous, and he might do something impulsive (like stab you) obviously worsening your position. You lead a group of people at work and are facing a heavy problem, or an impossible deadline. Well this is the time to inspire people and get the most out of them as possible. That should increase your chances of solving the problem. If you panic you might discourage them, and not only you, but your whole team shall underperform. While you panic, your mind is having a hard time finding a solution to the problem. Even if the solution is only to stay calm and wait for the problem to pass. Intelligent people think before they speak. Intelligent people also think rationally. Instead of freaking out over every little thing, finding drama, or becoming a victim, intelligent people rationalize their problems. Intelligent people don't prolong their problems. They end their suffering by doing what needs to be done in order for that problem to go away. Additionally, I've noticed that intelligent people who are stressed find an outlet or take a nap. Bottling up anxiety or pointing fingers like many people do is just going to evoke more stress. Obviously not all problems can be solved, but my point is that intelligent people handle stress differently. Answer from @Humberto Rada This could be for several reasons, but one thing I noticed from highly intelligent friends who are calm is that they are able to entertain themselves. Yes that is right, they always got something to think about. Its like they enjoy their thoughts more than interacting with other people. They are always elaborating on thoughts so they are busy with themselves. |