性格内向的人该如何爱自己
Introverts are undeniably unique people - and they are also undeniably difficult to understand. Some introverts are prone to self-deprecation, and they are often hard on themselves. We find ourselves questioning our own perception of ourselves - which can take us down a rabbit hole of negative thinking. What introverts really need is a reminder to love and care for themselves. Lucky for introverts, one of our strengths is that we are good at making ourselves happy - if we take the time to! We don't depend on other people to bring us joy; we are able find joy within ourselves and in the little things around us. Here are some ways introverts can work to love themselves more. Take time for yourself. Alone time is precious to introverts. Because being alone allows us to recharge our batteries, and as a result, it then allows us to be our best selves once those "batteries" are charged. The easiest way to love yourself more is to be your best self, which can only happen for introverts when they take time for themselves. "In a relationship, one of the main ways to show love is to give them your time," says Redditor user technicolor camera. "That time that you could have for yourself is now spent with that person. You'll sacrifice your time and schedule in order to do things with them. If you were in a relationship, you'd want to respect the other person's time or want them to respect yours, wouldn't you? In the same way, to love yourself, give yourself your own time. It means loving and respecting yourself enough to take your time seriously. Don't waste your time away. Use it to do the things you want, to do the things that matter to you." Accept yourself. Accept yourself as who you are: an introvert who is special and important. "Equanimity is the name of the game, which helps us to see things as they really are," says Reddit user el_drum. Introverts tend to blow things out of proportion, which means we end up exaggerating the meaning of good things or bad things. It boils down to building a deeply felt sense that "I am enough." |