这些方法能让你和你的另一半身心愉悦
1. HAVE A PHONE-FREE DINNER Whether it's at home or in a restaurant, a meal free of cell phones can work wonders for your attitude. "It sounds simple, but you can't imagine how many people allow the distractions of their phones during every part of their day," says Stephanie Lee, a lifestyle strategist and relationship expert. "Reconnect during a quiet and romantic dinner with your phone OFF. The lack of distraction will nurture good conversation." 2. TAKE AN EXERCISE CLASS TOGETHER Getting your heart-rate up is a great way to chill out, and joining in a class is a great way to instill discipline. "This is perfect for the couples who find themselves in the house or at a boring 9-to-5 all day," says Taylor Henry, sexual health expert for His & Hers. "Being active is a great stress reliever, and engaging in a mid- to fast-paced activity won't only get the blood flowing in both of you but also lighten the mood for more intimate activities later." 3. GAME NIGHT! Whatever your game of choice is, kicking back and spending a couple of hours playing it together is a fun way to connect and forget about everyday stresses. 4. TRY ANYTHING FOR THE FIRST TIME "Do something that neither of you has any known skills at," suggests Dr. Kathrine McAleese, a sociologist and psychotherapist. "It'll give you a different perspective on each other and a chance be novices together." 5. SHARE A GREAT BOTTLE OF WINE "Two people, sitting side by side, sipping wine (or anything) is a great form of relaxation," Bockmann says. 6. TAKE A SMALL ADVENTURE This can be anything, just make sure you go with the flow. "Small adventures can be going to a new neighborhood and trying an unusual restaurant, taking a walk in a direction you haven't gone before, or even having an at-home film festival," says Julienne Derichs, a licensed clinical professional counselor. "The possibilities are endless if you can let go of needing to be anywhere in particular, for just a few hours." |