蜜月不愉快会不会导致出轨
At the beginning of the 2004 film Along Came Polly, Ben Stiller's character Reuben catches his new wife cheating on him with a French scuba instructor-while they're on their honeymoon. Not only has he just lost what he thought was the love of his life, but now he has to go back home to New York alone to pick up the pieces of his life. And, well, along comes Polly (Jennifer Aniston's character) to do just that. While the general message of that less than memorable romantic comedy is about the wonderful things that can happen if you learn to take risks, I could never quite get past that honeymoon scene. Imagine going away with the person you just vowed to be with forever, and then discovering the two of you have vastly different standards of what commitment looks like-while you're standing in a tropical paradise. Talk about the ultimate mind-f**k. Arguably, your honeymoon is probably one of the most important trips you'll take with your spouse. Maybe one of the more expensive as well: The average couple spends upwards of $4,000 for this getaway. Not only is it the light at the end of a very long tunnel of wedding planning, but it's your first adventure together as partners for life. Regardless of how long you've been dating, this trip could potentially set the tone for your entire marriage. No pressure, right? But according to a recent survey from hookup website Ashley Madison, a happy honeymoon does not necessarily mean you'll end up with a happily-ever-after. In a (totally non-scientific) survey of 1,890 members on Ashley Madison, which caters to married people looking for some action on the side, 95 percent said they enjoyed their honeymoon-and yet they still found themselves looking for something more. In an effort to find out if there was any correlation between a bad honeymoon and a person's decision to cheat on their spouse, Ashley Madison asked survey takers who didn't enjoy their honeymoon to share what went wrong. |