为什么男人会后悔结婚
1. The love was never mutual. "She never loved me. She married me because she thought it would force her to develop feelings. Waste of time." 2. They had different ideas about what family means. "Wife lied to me about her family plans. Partially about having kids, mostly about building our own family. Her definition of 'our family' puts her mother at the head of the table. Mine does not." 3. She changed the minute she became a wife. "Her personality changed dramatically from the person I was dating. Stereotypical changes when we got married - way less [intimacy] and more entitlement. Another HUGE change about 8 years into the marriage with a 3 year old kid together. I never would have dated the person she became at that point." 4. She grew needy and depressed. "Her dad became terminally ill around the time we got married and she never recovered after his death, despite my best efforts to get her medicated and into therapy. She gained weight and does basically nothing except watch Netflix, I do about 80% of the housework. Thankfully we are still in an apartment and have no kids yet because divorce is almost a certainty at this point. We have nothing in common anymore. I feel like I'm living with a lazy, extremely needy roommate. We're living two completely separate lives." 5. She wasn't "the one." "I regret that I married the wrong woman, that I was immature and naive and too eager to find A woman vs. [waiting to find] the right woman." 6. Nothing made her happy. "She thought buying a house with me would make her happy. It didn't. I sold it alone and at a $10,000 loss." 7. She had a hardcore drug addiction. "She was a compulsive liar and coke-head. If you don't do drugs, it's hard to pick up on the tell-tale signs. My friends knew, my associates knew, her family knew, everybody knew but me. Yes, every sign was there. I just fell for all the lies. I loved that woman too." |