After long hours of waiting for my friend at the bus station, 我在公交站等着朋友,已经过去了好几个小时 I got tired 我感到疲乏 and was tempted to just leave 有些想就这样走开 and plan another meeting. 约着下次再见面 As I was still deciding, 我正犹豫不决 there came a man selling culture shoes 一个贩卖文化鞋的男子走过来 and started showing them off to me 开始向我展示他的鞋子 so as I could buy or something, 希望我买下一双 I just smiled and said thank you. 我只是微笑,说“谢谢,不用了” I don't know if it was the smile or what 我不知道是因为看到我的微笑还是什么原因 but the young-man stepped closer 那个年轻男子走过来 and stood beside me 在我身边站定 and started talking to me. 和我交谈起来 "You know 你知道 I didn't just end up like this, 过去我的生活不是这样的 selling shoes, 过去我不是个卖鞋子的 I had a life... 我有很好的生活 had a family 我有自己的家庭 but one day 可是有一天 life just turned up side downand 他的生活忽然天塌地陷 all was gone just like that", 一切都转瞬即逝 he said. 他说 Those were his words, 用他的话说 in short, 简而言之 his wife stole all his money, 他的妻子盗走了他所有的钱 sold his car and house, 把他的车和房子都变卖了 it was really a hard time for him 他度过了一段无比艰难的时期 and he was psychologically tortured. 心里承受着巨大的折磨 A lot happened 他经历了许多事 and then he decided to pick up the pieces of his life 他决定,把破碎的生活重新拼凑起来 and try to make ends meet, 让一切重归正规 that's when he started making culture shoes 从那以后,他就开始做文化鞋 and selling them to earn a living. 通过卖鞋子维持生计 As I stood there 我站在那里 listening to him pour out his heart 听着他掏心掏肺的讲述 and story of his life, 了解他过去的生活故事 I was still surprised 我倍感惊讶 how in the world 究竟为什么 can someone be so open to a total stranger like that 一个人竟能这样对陌生的人敞开心扉 and it dawned on me that 随后我突然想到 some people get relieved that way. 倾诉让他们心中释怀 You see, 你看 a lot of times 生活中时常 we meet people 我们遇到形形色色的人 and most of them have burdens in their hearts, 他们中大多数心中都有苦恼 some of them don't even have a person to listen to them, 他们之中些人,甚至找不到一个听众 so I've learned 从此我学会了 to be good to all people 友善的对待所有的人 and always give them my time 永远准备着把自己的时间献给他们 to listen to what they have to say. 倾听他们想说的话 By doing this 这样做 it will not only help that particular person 不仅能够帮助那个倾诉者 but also the one listening 也能帮助倾听的那个人 since you get to learn something from them 因为你能从他们身上获得新知 and see the other side of life. 看到人生百态 This will make the world a better place to live in for all of us. 这会让世界变得更加美好,让生活在这世界的你我更加幸福。 |