五种最佳英语社交打开话题之道！（双语）

5 best ice-breakers for any English social situation!/五种最佳英语社交打开话题之道！ (中英对照 )

试著介绍自己给别人认识可能会有些惊险。如果你并不了解他们任何事情，你将会知道要如何说呢？你会如何与一个你完全不认识的人开始一段有趣的对话呢？这里有五种"打开话题"英语之道来避免发生第一次与某人相遇冷淡难为情的场面。

寻找与他们的共同话题

即使你不知道关于这个人的任何事情，你可以这样,你知道他们与你在同一个房间。你可以这样问：「So what brings you here？」或者，如果你们都参加了你的朋友Bob的派对，你可以这样问：「How do you know Bob？」

赞美他们

每一个人都喜欢听到关于他们的好话。「What a wonderful dress you’re wearing!」指出你有多喜欢那个人的鞋子或是眼镜。如果在说：「thank you」之前没有什么要说的，你可以继续问下去：「Where did you get it？」 或是「What’s it made out of？」甚至是「Was it expensive？」这几种都是很好的方式来问对方，因为引导对方告诉你更多关于他们的事情。

问及有关于他们的问题

几乎所有的人都有工作，何不问一下这个人：「So what do you do for a living？ 」或是「Where are you from originally？ 」意思是你想要了解他们是在哪里生的。再说明一次，询问问题使任何第一次对话更容易些。如果对方有礼貌的话，他们会问你问题，这个时候就是一个谈论你自己的好机会了。

自我介绍

千万不要只说：「Hi, my name is John.」提供关于你自己的一些资讯。「Hi, my name is John. I'm a friend of Bob’s from high school. We use to have the same math class together.」这将更有机会来获得他们的一些资讯。

给予某物评论

不需要直接问这个人任何问题，你可以说些：「This is a great party」 或是「What a lovely house this is. 」来引导话题，即使这间房子或派对不属于他们的，这些表达方式仍然会使你愉快及容易谈论。最符合第一个建议，这些打开话题的工夫就是因为你一定与这个完全不认识的人有些共同话题，你们正互相交谈。

Trying to introduce yourself to a new person can be intimidating. If you don't know anything about them, how will you know what to say? How can you start an interesting conversation with a total stranger? Here are five English ice-breakers?ways of thawing the ice-cold awkwardness of meeting someone for the first time.

Find something in common with them. Even if you think you don't know anything about this new person, you actually do, you know they are in the same room as you. So what brings you here?you can ask. Or, if you are at your friend Bob's party, you can ask:How do you know Bob?

Compliment them. Everyone likes to hear nice things said about them. ?What a wonderful dress you are wearing!? Point out how much you like the person? shoes or glasses. After that, if they don't say anything more than thank you,?you can ask a follow-up, like Where did you get it?or What it made out of? or even Was it expensive?These sorts of questions are good because they invite the person to tell you more about themselves.

Ask them a question about themselves. Almost all people have jobs, so why not ask the person, So what do you do for a living? Or Where are you from originally?meaning you want to know where they were born. Again, questions make any first-time conversation easier. If the person is polite, they will ask you the question in return, which will give you a chance to talk about yourself.

Introduce yourself. Don't just say, Hi, my name is John.? Offer some information about yourself. Hi, my name is John. I'm a friend of Bob's?from high school. We use to have the same math class together.? This will hopefully catch the other person's?interest, prompting them to either ask you a question or offer some information about themselves.

Comment on something. Without directly asking any questions of this new person, you can draw them out by saying something like This is a great party?or ?What a lovely house this is.Even though the house or the party are not theirs, these statements still give you something pleasant and easy to talk about. Much like the first suggestion, these ice-breakers work because you do have something in common with this stranger; you are talking to each other.