well-mannered 彬彬有礼

“彬彬有礼”，汉语成语，原意为文质兼备的样子，后形容文雅有礼貌的样子。可以翻译为“refined and courteous; behave in a refined and civil manner; well-mannered”。

例句：

他彬彬有礼，但实际上却是在告诉我，我不可能得到这份工作。

He was very polite but effectively he was telling me that I had no chance of getting the job.

他是个好小伙，非常温和，彬彬有礼。

He was a nice fellow, very quiet and courteous.