与同事解决矛盾

产生矛盾如何解决：我想和你谈谈。

经典表达：

I want to speak to you for a moment.

我想和你谈谈。

举一反三：

It is not clear to me what you meant.

We all have our crosses, I suppose.

Let me explain my actions.

It's not like that.

It's not fair.

What do you want?

I'm not very pleased with you.

I just can't stand it any more.

I don't know how to deal with him.